Here we see that only Jesus knew what was truly of God. Others only can take guesses. As we see, Jesus tries to explain to the woman at the well that with Jesus, we are able to be filled with living water. This means that we can be so satisfied that food, shelter, and clothing can even be sacrificed to help others because are lives and hearts are so filled with Jesus and the Father's love.  Those that don't follow Christ will not understand this. But those that do should realize that Christians are here to love others and not condemn as Christ did not condemn this Samaritan woman. So love strongly you Christians and anyone that is not a Christian ask for help from the Christians. They should be helping with love. Yes, they may what you to become a Christian but you have every right to say "I choose not to but desire to live a life of morality and resposibility."  That is all that is needed. Even if you fail, all that needs to take place is to apologize and take responsibility again.