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An Extremely Unhappy Father's Day for Father of a six Year old Girl!

            Before I get into the atrocities of this piece, let me start by wishing all my fellow fathers out there a happy Father's Day. I am happy President Obama and VP Biden chose to address the issue of Fatherhood, outstanding, but the question remains are they willing to hit the nail on the head or are they going to skirt the most important reasons our  society is in the dire straights that its in?  There really is NO more important role for a MAN to accept, then that of a father, and yes ONLY a genetic male can effectively fill that role. Occupation, profession, hobbies even MOM shouldn't supersede the Art of Successful Fathering. As VP Biden put it, unconditional love should be shown in every aspect of fathering, whether that be discipline (not punishment, for the satiation of rage), you punish when refusal to adhere to milder more compassionate forms of discipline are REJECTED. Then and only is punishment merited. Understand, ANY punishment, not just physical is going to be considered extreme, unfair and unacceptable to the person it is being applied to, whether it is something as passive as not letting a child out to play or, something as severe as a swat on seat. The child is not going to appreciate it, in fact will come to appreciate it less and less if the rebellion is allowed to mature. Yes, I can talk on this subject as an "EXPERT" because I have two teenage sons. I see no where in the Dictionary, where an expert does everything right ALL the time, it just means they have a special skill or knowledge of an Idea. I have a special knowledge of what not to do as father, so understand, I am not trying to teach anything beyond the need to see the need to be a Father once you and your wife or girlfriend are expecting.

 

This also needs to be understood, just because SCIENCE is able to do what nature refused to countenance, has NO bearing on the definition of Fatherhood or Motherhood for that matter.  As sure as I'm writing this, there will be someone will take issue with the TRUTH, that's fine provided you have all the answers. Even when nature takes its course, and things transpire without the help of science, major error still happens, and NOTHING is going to change unless "Father's" or those qualified to be trained as fathers, are allowed to adopt and apply the right attitudes towards parent their own offspring, and aren't demonized for their shared gender.  Not all men will make good first-time fathers, few ever do, but a women will almost always make a better MOTHER, than anyone genetically designed to be a FATHER, again, all this was obvious to every one willing to draw a line between rational thinking and just making a lot of noise to in an attempt to get someone to believe in an idea that can't produce the same results without the help of science or a man.   
               It makes a person capable of rational thought, inquire after the where a bout's of the man who impregnated the women referred to as  "MOTHER" by a  six year old girl who was set on fire by the woman who carried her and that persons "MOTHER". To wash someone and put them to bed AFTER burning them alive, is NO CONSOLATION for the heinous, evil of the act itself or the desire motivating the act. Absent father's damage individuals and society without consequence to themselves. Are mates, or significant others expected to love unconditionally, is so, is it possible to identify "LOVE" by watching actions. That leads to questions: "Why wasn't Obama's father ABLE to be in his sons life?"  "How would you justify setting you own child on fire, to the half of that child?" "Is this example of "Religious Freedom" really what the Constitution defends?" "How could a GRANDMOTHER, stand by a watch, while her grand child was set on fire?"  I pity those foolish enough to think all religions or faith system's, system of belief are the same!  I can without argument prove to you that they are not, but there is something you must do if it is going to be real, to YOU!

           
Leviticus 18:21
And thou shalt not let any of thy seed pass through the fire to Molech, neither shalt thou profane the name of thy God: I am the LORD.

        Those that choose to behave and believe ignorantly I'm certain will argue this point, I doubt the six year old girl will, so I ask you, what "spirit" could possibly be so important to talk to that you would WILLINGLY set your  own flesh and blood on fire, and then not get him or her medical treatment.

        I've on several occasions, I remember the pain, so I have to ask, what kind of Monster's can set a child on fire, put her out and then sleep through the screaming. By the way, if use of the Bible as a reference source bothers you, just imagine they aren't there(kinda like what you do with the Bible itself)! The point I am trying to make here I hope is obvious, somewhere along some very wicked lines, "natural affections" were thrown out the window! Think that's inaccurate? For get the following the passage comes from the Bible, and just look at it for what it is! How can this NOT infuriate people?

  28And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind to do those things which are not fitting,

   
   29being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness, full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, malignity. They are whisperers,

   
   30backbiters, haters of God, spiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,

   
   31without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affections, implacable, unmerciful.

   
   32And knowing the judgment of God, that those who commit such things are worthy of death, they not only do the same, but have pleasure in those who do them.


As a journalist, I have to ask, "How does this affect your views on Christianity?" "Doesn't have anything to with Christianity!", YOU say, then why is it, Christian's get abused in the Government Controlled worse than any other "religion" in the world including Islam?

Where was Obama Daddy, anyway?

This isn't the message I would have chosen to share for Father's Day, but the importance of it is eminent!  What is more important than the tone of the message, is the fact that like it or not(admit to yourself, OR NOT), we ALL share a common Father figure, and it is denial of that fact, or polluting that image, that births events like the burning alive of a six year old little girl!

Many people don't have the relationship's with their Father's they deserve, many Father's were not prepared to take on that roll. I am thankful I have an excellent relationship with my father, it could, and will be better..Neither of us are perfect, but, imperfection is NO excuse to remove yourself from your responsibilities.

It is my Prayer, that Father's and "would be Father's", begin to understand that what they produce demands attention, YOU, by your actions and interactions promised, even if nothing was said. If this offends, tough, but if you intentionally plow and seed a field, the you are not free to claim ignorance of laws that have been in operation since time began. Seeds sown can not flourish, if the the "Husbandman" abandons his responsibilities.

From one father to all the rest, and the would-be fathers, HAPPY FATHERS DAY, Be the best one you can be, by looking to the example set for us by our Heavenly Father. Any denial of HIS existence, is nothing more than willfully turning your back on the obvious, and choosing to diminish your own self-worth and self-esteem. This is a positive, heartfelt encouragement to EVERY member of the Male gender to committing yourself to "Quit yourself like men!" BEFORE, During and After, the convictions of fatherhood are yours to embrace!  Fail you will, I have, but failure to embrace the willingness to fail and try again, damages MUCH, MUCH than your own soul.

So, my encouragement is this: "QUIT YOURSELF LIKE FATHERS!" in order to walk in the joy that comes with the OFFICE!


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  • Very well put! Partenhood doesn't come with instructions! We each learn from our own parents  good or bad we learn it's up to each of us to deciver the best way to raise children.


    There again no two children are the same either what works with one doesn't neccessarily work with the other one. My parents both told me that when my brother and I were very young we were very different when it came to disiplone us. They could look at me in a way I knew they were dissappointed in me, or at times I did recieve a switching! they were few and very far apart!


    My brother had to be delt with more serverely. He was hard-headed as a youngster. Thankfully he grew out of it it never pleasured our parents when they had to disipline us!


    But they shared with us how if they weren't responsible parents then God would have to teach us in HIS way. We'd both rather have our parents discipline us than God!


    My parents often qouted the above scripture that God would turn us over to a repobate mind if we weren't obedient to HIS will, loving and trusting HIM enough to obey our parents!


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